There are a lot of circumstances in life that can cause you to want to make new friends. Moving to a new city, going away to college, getting divorced, or finding out you have a “false friend”, to name just a few.
Then, once you’ve made a new friend or two, you’ll want to keep those friendships alive. Our friendship tips can help you both make new friends, and keep the old ones.
What kind of friend are you? Are you someone who others can turn to for support when they are down, can you give them a push at the same time as holding their hand, or are you more focused on just sharing gossip and social outings? How many of the following essential attributes of a true friend do you have?
Non-Judgmental: A true friend will never judge you. They will stand by you no matter what you believe or what you do. They may not agree with you, but they respect your right to make your own mistakes, have your own opinions, and walk the path you choose.
Compassion: A true friend will be the first person to offer you a supporting hand when you fall. They won’t question whether the situation was your own making, they will just help you put things right again. They won’t dismiss your sorrow at losing a pet, or your distress at your favourite team losing, as being non-important. They will know that it is important to you, and that’s all that matters.
Listening: A true friend knows how to listen. Really listen, without feeling the need to talk and turn the conversation focus onto them. They will hear what you say and will be able to let you get your feelings out in the open without interruption.
Trust: A true friend will give you a safe place to be yourself. What you say or do will not be repeated by them to anyone else.
Encouraging: A true friend will help you find your dreams. They will explore your life and help you move towards what you really want in life.
